Category: YOKONORI

  • We are all looking for something

    We are all looking for something

    Compliance is good for productivity but that might not be what most people are looking for when it comes to uncovering a deeper meaning in life or in a workplace. What most people are longing for is connection and belonging. When you ask people to comply, it’s all about obligation. And obligating people to perform has…

  • Choosing how to lead

    Choosing how to lead

    One way to lead people is to obligate them to follow. It’s not hard to do. Just give someone a job description and a pay check and you have obligated someone to that said responsibility. A better way to lead people is to tell them a good story and invite them to join a team…

  • Looking vs. seeing

    There is looking and they’re seeing. And I think there is an important difference that needs to be understood. To look at something is to focus on it, observe it for what it is, where it is. But to see something or more importantly, someone is to know them, to begin to stand in their…

  • Get to know people

    Get to know people

    I don’t think people are to be studied or observed from a distance. People have a deep-rooted desire to be known and to know others. The trouble with this is that to be know requires us to let down our guard and be honest about who we are and where we have come from. The beautiful…

  • Knowledgeable is not the goal

    Knowledgeable is not the goal

    People like being in the know. People like it so much that they use knowing more of something or knowing something before others as power. They think it gives them some kind of credibility but it’s not true. Knowledge is important and we should never stop learning. But have you ever said “that person is…

  • A Powerful Force

    A Powerful Force

    The more empathy I have, the less annoying other people are.

  • Seeing beyond yourself

    Seeing beyond yourself

    Have you ever been walking somewhere familiar and see something you’ve never seen before? Maybe you had walked that same street or path 100 times and always took care to look where you were going but never saw anything interesting before. But on the right days and in the right light and at just the…

  • Problem Solving vs. Team Building

    Problem Solving vs. Team Building

    If you have a problem, it will stay a problem unless it’s solved. In order to solve the problem you first must understand the issues and make sense of it so you can then try solving it. But no one problem is like another and no one solution works for everything. All that to say,…

  • Too popular

    Too popular

    There is “popular” and then there is “too popular”. Popular is not bad. There are lots of really good things that are popular. Like chocolate and vanilla ice cream. They are the most popular ice cream flavors and that’s good. I don’t think anyone would argue that they are too popular. So what is too…